"Women, take note: The initially shy or awkward guys usually make better husbands in the long run than the instantly suave, charismatic ones!"

Above quote taken from yet another Yahoo! featured article. I can't say that it is absolutely true for Im not married yet, but that is what I believe as well (and hopefully it will be true!).

I know how attractive are those guys who are good with their words and can keep a girl entertained in a conversation. But somehow a small part of me will always remind myself that if he can do this with me almost instantly, means he can easily do that with other girls also. So that leaves no guessing as to how assuring can he be if he were to be a partner.

Im not saying to take that as a sure sign when assessing someone but it could be a subtle sign of how a guy generally is with others as well. Of course there will be many other factors to be taken into consideration, this is just one out of many to be considered.